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I was having a conversation about surviving versus thriving and I was talking about some of the things I wanted to accomplish before the end of the year. My friend commented that it was like you’ve been flying with one wing all along and now it’s...
Sick of feeling like an imposter or a fraud? Yet, notice how you don’t quit showing up to your job or class where you feel like an imposter. You’re a good person with impeccable integrity, so why would you stay somewhere where you believe that you’re a...
Did you know I have a YouTube Channel that is the new home of Ask an Advanced Bitch? Last week I answered a question about repetitive dreams (click here) and this week I’ll answer
a question about two different levels of messiness in one household. If you have a question for me,...
The Irreverent Imposter Syndrome Guide deconstructs Imposter Syndrome so you can be yourself and not an imposter anymore. One side effect of less imposter syndrome is More You!!!! The Modules:
- Imposter Syndrome is a Part of You (Not all of you!)
- Imposter Syndrome is a...
The Irreverent Imposter Syndrome Guide deconstructs Imposter Syndrome so you can be yourself and not an imposter anymore. One side effect of less imposter syndrome is MORE JOYYYYYYYY!!!!!
Omg “not accepting praise is being cold and not allowing myself to connect to...
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“The human soul doesn’t want to be advised, fixed or saved. It simply wants to be witnessed – to be seen, heard and companioned exactly as is.” – Parker Palmer
I hate daily email, but there is one I subscribe...
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I have some really interesting news for you. If you take it in, you’ll be a lot freer than most of people on the planet.
Whoever you’re comparing yourself to right now is dealing with some dark shit that you don’t want any...
Magical Lesson:
In this video, I answer a question about Attachment and getting misdiagnosed when you have CPTSD. If we follow the thread of our issues, we can see that most if not all have their roots in some kind of childhood pain.
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A few questions you can ask...
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Magical Lesson:
Last week I sent you an excerpt from The Irreverent Trust Guide, so this week I made a video to show you how I would use the tool on a particular question. I applied The Ladder of Trust on a question to an advice columnist on what...
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This is a clip from the last class I taught. I was asked a question about a Field Study and I used a soccer field as a metaphor for the psychological field. Below is the explanation I taught and what Van Der Kolk means when he talks about "The Watchtower" in...
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Join us this Saturday for the Trauma Book Book Club where we'll be talking about how part of the brain that's the alarm system for our brain and a few tools that can help us remind ourselves that we're safe.
Recently, a friend made a big leap in following...
It’s such a joke when anyone – especially a child is called "too sensitive." It’s a soul searing accusation. Using “too sensitive” as a slur is pretty ironic given that it is our sensitivity that makes us the empathetic and magical people that we...